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        <title>Beyond Words...</title>   
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        <p>Vida is about a week away from turning 20 months!&#160; Her language development continues to impress me.&#160; I know, every mother has a super baby.&#160; Well here&#39;s some proof:</p><p><u><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">She can say some 3 word sentences, here are some examples:</span></u></p><p><strong>1.</strong><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;"> I see you!&#160;</span><span style="color: #333333"> <span style="color: #000000">If you&#39;re playing hide and seek and she spots you</span></span><span style="color: #000000">.</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">2. <span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1em;">We&#39;re home!</span><span style="color: #660000">&#160;</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">As we drive into our alley and pull up to our place.</span><br />3. <span style="color: #660000">There it is!&#160;</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">When she has located something we asked for.</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333"><u><span style="font-size: 1.25em;"><br /></span><span style="font-size: 1em;">She has memorized two songs and sings them on her own.</span></u></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">1. <span style="color: #660000">The Wheels on the Bus..</span>. <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">(My mom just loves this one.)</span><br /><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">This one is not as easily understood until you hear her say, &#39;round and round&#39;.&#160; She sings it spontaneously not on command.</span><br />2 <span style="color: #660000">Happy Birthday!</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">(Every gathering with multiple people and candles in sight is &#39;Happy Birthday&#39; time.)</span><br /><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">Take Thanksgiving for example: At the table were centerpieces with orange tapers.&#160; She was so excited and began to sing<span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;"> &quot;Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to Vida.&#160; Blow! Blow!</span></span><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;">&quot;</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">Vida has a cousin that&#39;s 6 weeks older than her and his mom said he only knew 3 words and simply grunts to have his needs met.<span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333">3. She&#39;s working on some Mother Goose Nursery rhymes, I think she has them but doesn&#39;t sing them all the way through on her own.&#160; Favorites include: <span style="color: #660000">Twinkle Twinkle Little Star</span> (95% memorized), <span style="color: #660000">Row, Row, Row Your Boat </span>and <span style="color: #660000">Pat a Cake</span> (85% memorized).</span></p></span><p><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">&#160;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;"><u>She asks to have books read to her one after the other.</u>&#160;</span> <br />I notice this most during the bed time routine: we put the pajamas on, bring the bottle, she inhales it, and says, &#39;book&#39;.&#160; We read one, two, and sometimes three or four books.&#160; I am trying to decipher if she has already started to use it as a stall for bedtime or simply enjoys reading for pleasure. There are days where she&#39;ll get in a book worm mood in the middle of the day and want to read.&#160; <br />There&#39;s one book, she can &#39;read&#39; on her own: <br /></span></span>
    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        





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<br /><span style="color: #660000"><span style="color: #333333"><br />On each page there&#39;s a different doll with a feature that is not &#39;right&#39;.&#160; Example: &#39;That&#39;s not my dolly!&#160; Her shoes are too bumpy!&#39;&#160; The shoes are textured for touch.&#160; As Vida flips through it, you can hear the intonation that I use as I read to her.&#160; I may have mentioned this before because she caught me by surprise about two months ago when I overheard her.&#160; I am fascinated though because it reminds of when I ask kids to read aloud with an animated voice and to use the punctuation marks.&#160; Some kids still sound monotone or their attempts are strained.&#160; Reading with intonation can only be learned through modeling.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 1.5625em;"><u><span style="color: #333333">She engages in storytelling</span></u></span>:<br /><span style="color: #333333">There are 3 incidents she re-lives when something trigger her memory, usually an object or keyword.</p><p>1. <u>The parakeet incident:</u> While Pablo let the birds spread their wings, they scrambled to the top of the back door when Vida approached.&#160; One of them flew away back to the cage as Vida began to move the door.&#160; The more docile, tame one, stayed and had a toe smashed in the door frame.&#160; With a horrible shriek, Vida let go and ran to the other side of the kitchen, she was traumatized.&#160; Her face flush and on the verge of tears from the horrible squaking.&#160; Pablo was washing the dishes (awesome Husband, I know) and I came in to check out the commotion.&#160; The bird is now inside its cage and bleeding.&#160; I attend to Vida and reassure her, Pablo attends to the bird, quickly Googling first aid.&#160; Pablo was leaving the next morning for a surprise visit home for his mom&#39;s birthday.&#160; I took the bird in for a check up (I didn&#39;t think it was necessary but these $4 parakeets are his friends).&#160; $100 later (an antibiotic and vitamin shot), granted both parakeets had their nails trimmed, he&#39;s fine.&#160; Every now and then, Vida will comment:</p><p><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;">Bird, Door, Sorry</span><span style="color: #660000"></p><p>Sorry...<span style="color: #333333">was picked up at daycare.&#160; If she walks by an object and bumps into it, she tells the it, &#39;sorry&#39;.&#160; Once when I picked her up from daycare, she said, &#39;Seesaw.&#160; Sorry.&#39;&#160; She motioned to her head.&#160; I am guessing some kid abruptly got off and she fell off.</p><p>2. Then there was the Turban squash incident.&#160; We selected a turban squash from the pumpkin patch.&#160; It was Pablo&#39;s idea, it could serve as Vida&#39;s own pumpkin, it&#39;s a cute size, and it looks like a toadstool.&#160; Below is an example:</span><br /></span></span></span>
    
    
    

    
    
    
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</p><p> One morning I was washing out her bottles and she wanted to tell the parakeets good morning.&#160; We have a routine where we tell them &#39;good morning&#39; and pull of the towel that covers them.&#160; Well the turban squash was sitting on top of the cage and came down with just a couple of gentle tugs.&#160; A &#39;foot&#39; of the squash landed square on the front right corner of Via&#39;s head and knocked her to her butt.&#160; It was definitely a slow motion reaction on my part as it unfolded.&#160; She summarizes the incident as <span style="color: #660000"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">Pumpkin!&#160; Burdies!&#160; Sorry!&#160; <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">As she pats the part of her forehead that was hit.&#160; :-(</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">I don&#39;t want to end on a sad note like that.&#160; She has incredible resiliency and spunk.&#160; It&#39;s hilarious to watch her find tons of amusement in the most basic experiences, like going up and down the back steps or her <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Little-Tikes-Endless-Adventures-Slide/dp/B001GQA7A0/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=toys-and-games&amp;qid=1260164387&amp;sr=8-2">Little Tikes slide </a>in our living room.&#160; The role playing is expanding.&#160; She places her stuff animals on chairs and spins them &#39;round and &#39;round.&#160; She reads with them in her <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Ryans-Room-Mambo-Clubhouse-Tunnels/dp/B002OSU2VS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=toys-and-games&amp;qid=1260164476&amp;sr=1-1">house</a>.</span></span>&#160; <span style="color: #333333"></p><p>This weekend a new element of entertainment was introduced...Play dough!&#160; I have small jars (the party favor ones) in 4 different colors.&#160; She loves them all.&#160; Daddy has a good time too.&#160; He makes her cake, strawberries, and bananas.&#160; She likes using tools with it, like a small roller, protractor, and the cases themselves.&#160; Beginning in January, she will start attending <a href="http://www.musictogether.com/">Music Togethe</a>r classes.&#160; I am saving the details of our first demo class for another post.&#160; The program is simply amazing!&#160; We&#39;re taking small steps to prep her for preschool, she could start as early as 4 months from now!&#160; Most likely, we&#39;re still 10 months away but it&#39;s good to present her with similar experiences.&#160; <br /></span> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Always a mommy...always</title>   
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        <p>It seems as though the surge of hormones acquired during my pregnancy with Vida still linger.&#160; Whenever I read a tragic news story about a young life lost, a sinking feeling comes over me.&#160; I actually feel my chest sink a little bit as I go limp reading some of the details of these abductions that almost always result in killings.&#160; </p><p>I can recall the first time that I watched some footage on the news while on maternity leave and simply clutching Vida as close as I possibly could without actually squishing her.&#160; I needed to run an errand at Target and began to take into consideration measures that are needed to protect her from &#39;baby snatchers&#39;.&#160; The story I watched on the news didn&#39;t even play out like that. However, the thoughts of what a &#39;baby snatcher&#39; <em>could</em> do sent me into hyper-protective mode.</p><p>As an educator, you have many opportunities to create nurturing mommy moments.&#160; I recently subbed in a first grade classroom and was taken aback by the hugs I was welcomed with after lunch recess.&#160; This morning, I arrived early for an assignment to assist a librarian.&#160; There was a 1st grader waiting for the library to open up along with me.&#160; She had a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fancy-Nancy-Spanish-Elegante/dp/0061435287/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1258527433&amp;sr=8-1">Fancy Nancy book in Spanish</a>!&#160; I asked her about it and asked if I could read it with her.&#160; Mid-way through the book, a fourth grader arrived and began to follow along.&#160; I just couldn&#39;t help myself.&#160; For one thing, I felt awkward just hanging out in the hallway and out of a little boredom was born a teachable moment.<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Lego Rock Band!!</title>   
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<p>Just a few weeks ago my little preschooler came home with his first Scholastic sheet and order form. I could remember being so excited about ordering books when I was in school that I HAD to give in and buy a few for Nate. I decided to let him pick out some and he circled everything. So, we went with The Very Cranky Bear by Nick Bland and the &quot;If You Give a Mouse A Cookie&quot; set. He&#39;ll get the set for Christmas but I let him have the The Very Crank Bear now. </p>
<p>This book is AWESOME. I just read it to my 4 year old dude and he LOVED it. Daddy even played out the story and acted as the VERY CRANKY BEAR himself. It was a good time. I loved the illustrations and the story was fun. Highly recommend it for other little dudes and dudettes :)</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p><span style="color: #663366; font-size: 1.95312em;">Imagine...</span><br />A <a href="http://www.blueberryatelier.com/">preschool </a>with a passionate director, an authentic Reggio approach, and a beautiful environment.&#160; Yes, it&#39;s out of reach: with only a 1/2 day schedule and a 5-digit price tag plus an additional $2K for the art materials and registration fee.&#160; The experience is worthwhile, this<a href="http://www.asenseofwonderasenseofplace.com/A_Sense_of_Wonder,_A_Sense_of_Space/Movie.html"> site</a> is a testament to how the childrens&#39; natural talents are nourished.&#160; I knew the preschool search would be tough but didn&#39;t expect heartache to go with it.&#160; What I have learned though is to use the same approach when selecting a day care site.&#160; I didn&#39;t give myself enough time on that one.&#160; I am happy with Vida&#39;s daycare but it doesn&#39;t have a bilingual component.&#160; It&#39;s possible to have it all, it just takes a significant amount of planning.</p><p>We just wrapped up our second <a href="http://www.chalkpreschool.com/">preschool</a> tour and were super satisfied until we reflected on the price tag, it&#39;s more than our rent.&#160; It will be a back up, pending my future employment.&#160; When you compare it to the preschool above, it&#39;s a &#39;bargain&#39;.&#160; A huge bonus at this location is that the child can start on their second birthday, rolling admissions, and they don&#39;t have to be potty-trained.&#160; So far this has been a rare perk: usually potty training is required and they can&#39;t start until they are 2.5.</p><p>I have 4 more preschool tours between November and January.&#160; 1/2 of them are not realistic due to their hours but I want to get a feel for what&#39;s offered in the area so that I can make an informed decision. <span style="color: #663366"></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="color: #333333">This is when you truly feel the middle class squeeze and your options are limited.&#160; We want it all: a satisfying career, home ownership and a great education for our child(ren).&#160; In CA, that combination is reserved for a few.</p><p>Oh, how I miss the days where I could scribble out a 5-year plan and everything worked out perfectly, falling into place at the right time.&#160; Now, it&#39;s about the 10-year plan and holding our breath that it works out.&#160; I guess, we can hold off on buying our first place until it&#39;s time for kindergarten or college.&#160; I am an advocate of public education whether traditional or charter.&#160; However, I feel strongly about a private high school education.&#160; That view could change with some significant reform.</p><p>I read the The Complete <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Complete-Tightwad-Gazette-Amy-Dacyczyn/dp/0375752250">TightWad Gazette</a> to learn more tips about saving money.&#160; To truly fit the bill there are some caveats: you need to have strong home ec skills, live in a rural area, and have one parent stay home.&#160; Yes, there were multiple examples of families owning homes with only one income, granted their purchases were less than $50K.</p><p>Which brings me to my next topic...</p><p><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">How do I reduce my carbon footprint, live a frugal life, and increase family quality time factor?</span><br /><span style="color: #663366">(I would love to hear your answers to this question too.)</span></p><p>This BIG question evolved as I discovered the <a href="http://noimpactproject.org/">No Impact Man</a>, the book mentioned above, personal finance blogs, a rigorous work environment, and the <a href="http://www.storyofstuff.com/">Story of Stuff</a>.</p><p>So in my tiny universe I have taken these steps and noticed that some have the added benefit of a healthy lifestyle too:</p><p>1. Commitment to only 1 TV in our household and no cable.&#160; We have always had 1 TV and the DirectTV was canceled months ago and replaced with a more affordable Netflix subscription (only 1 DVD at a time).&#160; It still feels like we watch too much TV, between morning cartoons and our shows/interests, we&#39;re probably at 10 hours/week.&#160; I would rather spend that time reading or doing something productive like household duties.&#160; As Vida&#39;s school years begin, I would like to create the routine of no TV after dinner as it will be reserved for homework time and it only gets turned on after she&#39;s asleep.&#160; We have ridiculously great weather, it was 90 degrees today, we should be outside more often.&#160; </p><p>2. Making treats instead of buying them.&#160; Like if I want to serve dessert for the family it will be something made from scratch.&#160; Or if I want snack foods for work, it will be a home-made item.&#160; So far this has been in effect 50%...</p><p>3. Buying in bulk and sharing the difference with family.&#160; We&#39;re just two adults and a toddler, so I review a list of needs with my mom and we split the cost on some Costco purchases.</p><p>4. Using a Brita filter instead of buying bottled water, this one is tough because bottle water is such an evil, er, great convenience.&#160; We&#39;re getting better at this one, I think a larger Brita contraption would help.</p><p>5. Menu planning: it makes so much sense and has significant pay off in terms of finances and stress.&#160; No last minute decisions and panic fast food runs.&#160; It&#39;s not intuitive or second nature yet but it has improved in the last 3 months.&#160; Taking time off from working full time made a difference.&#160; It also helps with grocery shopping and cuts down on throwing away unused food.</p><p>6. No full price purchases or dining: Basically take advantage of discounts, coupons, and perks if you want to treat yourself or indulge.&#160; There have been multiple times that I found myself remembering that &#39;we had a coupon for that.&#160; Dang it!&#39;</p><p>7. Do significant research on any purchase over $50: First ask yourself is it REALLY necessary, then if it is, hunt for the best value.&#160; Take Vida&#39;s bedroom furniture for example: the crib can be modified to a toddler bed and the dresser and night stand can plain-face or have colorful panels, it&#39;s also well made and will last.&#160; I remember having my furniture for nearly a decade.&#160; I can&#39;t say the same for our main couch, I think it&#39;s cush factor has a maximum of 5 years left.</p><p>Living this lifestyle is not difficult it just takes commitment, like my </span></span></span><span style="color: #663366"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="color: #333333"><a href="http://www.google.com/products/catalog?source=ig&amp;hl=en&amp;rlz=&amp;q=jillian+michaels+30+day+shred&amp;um=1&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;cid=13957019723249466887&amp;ei=07vmSszTE430sQPUxLCaBQ&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=product_catalog_result&amp;ct=result&amp;resnum=4&amp;ved=0CBsQ8wIwAw#ps-sellers">Jillian&#39;s 30-Day Shred work out.</a>&#160; :-) Bottom line: you can&#39;t procrastinate if you want to be successful with this lifestyle. &#160; <br /></span></span></span> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p>How fun is it to sing the &#39;ABC&#39;s&#39; song?</p><p>It&#39;s my first round and I am loving it.&#160; Vida sings along during certain portions.&#160; She has a strong concept of letter and sound relationships.&#160; She has even transferred it to graffiti, let me explain:<br />While at the park on Sunday, she was playing on the equipment and crawled through a tunnel that had some tagging, silly stuff like, &#39;cows eat poop&#39; along with actual tagging.&#160; She pointed to the letter &#39;C&#39; and said it.</p><p>The night before we &#39;tagged&#39; up the bathroom tile with Crayola&#39;s tub crayons and sang about the ABC&#39;s during bath time.&#160; *Remember*: I am an educator and learning opportunities abound.&#160; Below is a video of the final round, she&#39;s not participating as much.&#160; Her voice comes through as a high pitch, my apologies in advance:</p>
    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        





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        <title>No more blogging...</title>   
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        <p><br />I won&#39;t be blogging anymore.&#160; No more time.&#160; I find it too time consuming living life...instead of blogging opinions about it.&#160; But it made a difference to read your thoughts.&#160; Whether we agreed or not.&#160; It made a difference to share mine and grapple with social, cultural and political issues.&#160; But now I move on.&#160; I do check in.&#160; Thank you to all who contributed to me.&#160; I have blocked many of my posts and only leave those that might make a difference.&#160; Best of luck.</p><p>And may we all find our humanity in ourselves and in each other in these worst of times.&#160; I hope with this new era in American leadership, we try to come together - or we are sunk.&#160; Differing views are fine.&#160; But in the end when all the debates are over (and the bickering) when the decision is made, we say we stand united as a country.&#160; </p><p>May our choices be those for the greater good.&#160; <br />May our steps we take as individuals be for the greater good. <br />May the crisis bring out our best in each of us that we didn&#39;t even know we had.&#160; <br />May we be our brothers&#39; keepers. <br />May we serve someone else when we feel deprived or sad.<br />May we stop and relish this beautiful earth and care for it&#39;s future as if it were are child.<br />May we stand for peace.&#160; <br />Blessed are the peacemakers.<br />And in so doing, may we celebrate our humanity in all it&#39;s glory.</p><p>May you prosper in the intangibles: love, courage, character responsibility, accountability, loyalty and an open mind.&#160; <br />May the riches you find in an economic free fall be the cherishing of friends, good health and in comfort through the universal spirit of love - I call God.&#160; Be safe, be healthy, and find joy and comfort in that.</p><p><br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;">    
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        <title>Рассказ о секс знакомствах</title>   
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        <p>Мое имя Анна. Анечка, Анюта. Но все меня зовут по-разному.<a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/seks-klub-znakomstv.html">Секс клуб знакомств</a> Подруги по
работе, если их можно назвать подругами, зовут меня Стервочка Анечка.
Или просто Стервочка. Наша Стервочка. Почему я сомневаюсь в том, что их
можно назвать подругами? Понимаете, там, где я работаю, дружба в
принципе невозможна. Впрочем, о своей работе я расскажу немного позже. 
</p><p> Я вообще не очень понимаю, зачем я взялась написать о своей жизни.<a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/onlayn-seks-znakomstva.html">Онлайн секс знакомства</a>
Может быть потому, что хочу понять сама, что в ней не так, почему у
меня не получается жить так, как живут все остальные люди? 
</p><p> Мне двадцать шесть лет.<a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/znakomstva-intim-fotki.html">Знакомства интим фотки</a> Почти двадцать семь.<a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/page-2-1.html">Сайт знакомств секс без обязательств</a> А у меня нет ни
семьи, ни детей, ни квартиры. У меня есть деньги, чтоб купить квартиру,
но я боюсь оставаться одна. Я побаиваюсь одиночества. Конечно, из этой
ситуации <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/ejdunarodnie-sayti-znakomstv.html">Международные сайты знакомств</a> можно было бы найти выход, если бы я вышла замуж, но я
испытываю затруднения в общении с мужчинами. Вернее нет, не так. С
общением как раз все в порядке. <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/znakomstva-seks-pavlodar.html">Знакомства секс павлодар</a> Я легко и свободно могу с ними
общаться, флиртовать, но как только дело заходит до физических
отношений... Впрочем, обо всем по порядку. 
</p><p> Я росла болезненной, слабой девочкой. Моя мама, которая меня
воспитывала одна, без отца, часто водила меня по докторам. Поэтому я
довольно быстро привыкла <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/populyarniy-znakomstva-onlayn.html">Популярный знакомства онлайн</a> раздеваться перед незнакомыми дядями. Лет до
девяти меня это не заботило и только то, что я подолгу мерзла, когда
они меня разглядывали, меня очень <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/paren-poznakomitsya-s-parnem-do-18-let-dlya-seksa.html">Парень познакомится с парнем до 18 лет для секса</a> расстраивало. 
</p><p> Честно говоря, я не помню, когда, наконец, произошло это. Когда я
почувствовала себя Девочкой. Только однажды, когда меня привели в
большой кабинет <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/znakomstvo-drujba-lybov.html">Знакомство дружба любовь</a> , который назвали странным словом &quot;консилиум&quot;, когда
мама меня завела в него и меня попросили раздеться, я вдруг страшно
застеснялась раздеваться перед десятком строгих дяденек и тетенек,
которые ожидающе глядели на меня. Я оглянулась на маму и попросила: 
</p><p>   - Мама, пойдем домой. 

</p><p>   - Обязательно пойдем, Анечка, только сначала нужно, чтоб врачи поглядели на тебя. 

</p><p>   Мама улыбнулась. Увидев теплую мамину улыбку, я решилась. Мне не хотелось расстраивать свою любимую мамочку. 

</p><p> Я очень медленно расстегнула кофточку, расстегнула и сняла
платьишко. Я чувствовала как все больше краснею. Как мои щечки и ушки
наливаются <a href="http://fujvgze.d0m.us/onlayn-seks-znakomstva.html">Онлайн секс знакомства</a> кровью. Я снимала вещь за вещью и время от времени
оглядывалась на маму. Мама улыбалась. 
</p><p> Наконец, когда на мне остались одни трусики, я замерла в
нерешительности и поглядела на Самого Главного Дядю. Он молчал и ждал,
постукивая по столу ручкой. Я сняла трусики. 
</p><p> Мне было ужасно стыдно. Я стеснялась поднять глаза и все время,
пока они меня разглядывали, просили присесть, наклониться, глядела
только в пол. Мне было стыдно, что они меня разглядывают, но вместе со
стыдом я почувствовала что-то новое, очень необычное, что-то такое,
чего до сих пор не было. Что-то такое, от чего мне было очень приятно.
И я, к огромному изумлению для самой себя, очень расстроилась, когда
Самый Главный Дядя сказал: &quot;спасибо, Анечка, можешь одеваться&quot;. Мне
было тогда двенадцать лет. 
</p><p> Потом, уже дома, когда я сидела и играла, я снова представила себя
в том кабинете, как меня разглядывают дяди и тети, одетые в белые
халаты, как произносят что-то на непонятном языке, кивая друг другу и
соглашаясь, поздравляя себя зачем-то и улыбаясь, и во мне поднималось
откуда-то снизу, от ног, вверх, тепло, медленно разливаясь по телу. Мои
щечки горели от стыда, а тело наслаждалось пережитым. 
</p><p>   Утром я спросила маму, когда мы снова пойдем в больницу. 

</p><p> - Наверно, очень не скоро, Анечка. Ты уже здорова. Не волнуйся,
тебе не придется больше раздеваться перед дядями. Я понимаю, как тебе
это было неприятно. Ты у меня уже большая. - Ответила мне мама и
поцеловала меня в лоб. 
</p><p>   - Хорошо, мамочка. - Сказала я, а сама расстроилась. Мне ночью снилось все то же: я и много людей в белых халатах. 
   
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<p><br /> Прошло несколько лет. Мои впечатления о пережитом в поликлинике
несколько приугасли. Было очень много всего такого, что занимало мое
детское внимание. Новые игрушки, платья, новые друзья, подруги, я
целыми днями бегала с мальчишками на улице, каталась на велосипеде,
который мне подарила мама на день рождения. Это был мой первый
велосипед. Я его хорошо помню. Красный, блестящий, с низкой рамой,
&quot;дамский&quot;, как мне сказала мама. 
</p><p> И вот, однажды, когда каникулы были в самом разгаре, к нам
приехала в гости бабушка, мамина мама. Она привезла много гостинцев,
варенье, компоты, а потом предложила на остаток лета уехать с ней, в
деревню. Я с радостью согласилась. Я помнила, как замечательно провела
прошлые летние каникулы у бабушки в деревне, на речке, с подружками,
Наташей и Светкой, как мы загорали на крыше Светкиного сарая, как
бегали купаться и целыми днями валялись на берегу речки, строя городки
из песка. Как бегали на старое, давно заброшенное кладбище и
рассказывали друг другу страшные истории. Как мы ходили мыться в
Светкину баню, как мальчишки подглядывали за нами в окошко и мы, с
визгом, бросая в них веники, бежали жаловаться Клавдии Михайловне,
бабушке Светки. Это, последнее воспоминание, почему-то мне понравилось
больше всего. <br />
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